I grew up in Houma, Louisiana - about an hour south (that's right,
south) of New Orleans. Houma is not really the little town it was when
I was a kid, but it's certainly not the size of New Orleans, either.
Mardi Gras in smaller towns is very different from the City - much more
of a family affair. Nobody shows any body parts to speak of. Young girls
wear halter tops and that's enough to get them inundated with beads
and trinkets from the floats of the men's krewes.
My sisters who still live there are very active in the Mardi Gras
celebration. I would say that their social lives revolve around it.
There are fund raisers, like weekly bingo games, all year long. The
'krewes' (as a Mardi Gras club is called) are broken up into float units.
The members of a 'float' stay together from year to year and are very
close friends. Some people belong to more than one krewe! (These people
are serious party animals.) Belonging to even one krewe involves a long
string of parties. If someone is on the court, whether or not they are
the king or queen, they attend parties given by each float as well as
the parties thrown for the entire group. All of these parties really
come to the boil after Christmas.
Since Fat Tuesday is the last day to party before the onset of lent
(on Ash Wednesday), the date of Mardi Gras floats (no pun intended).
It's 6 weeks before Easter. Some years Mardi Gras is in February and
the weather can be very cold, others in March. This year it was in March
and the weather was spectacular. The azaleas were blooming and the temperature
was in the 70s with a high of 80 on Mardi Gras day.
My younger sister was the queen of the Krewe of Aphrodite this year.
Each year members of the krewe 'put their names in' for queen. One person's
name is drawn. This year her name was drawn. This was a very important
occasion to her. There were 5 daughters in my family - All of us were
there. Not to attend would be like not going to her wedding. Only this
is waaaaaay more fun than a wedding!
I arrived late on Thursday night. Queen Eileen's parade was on Friday
night. She woke up very early, had her hair done and was dressed to
kill, in a beautiful white dress (not the ball gown) with her crown
on when the 4 women who were the Court showed up at her house. Just
as the court was assembling in Eileen's house, a dozen Shriners showed
up on yellow and green Harley Davidson motorcycles to escort the ladies.
They were all lined up, parked at the curb when the white stretch limo
arrived to ferry the ladies around for a full day of partying. The limo
driver brought Queen Eileen a dozen long stemmed roses to add to a house
already loaded with flowers. With the sirens on the motorcycles wailing,
they took off, first to a breakfast with the entire krewe, then on to
stops all over town. They visited kindergartens, rest homes, a bar where
they were entertained by male strippers, and who knows where else. By
6:30 pm, they were dressed in their costumes and on the floats. Needless
to say, the Cajuns are serious drinkers. I don't know how they stay
vertical.
VIPs (like me and the rest of the family) received special invitations
to watch the parade from the viewing stand. The stand is built across
the front of City Hall. Inside City Hall there was a buffet and a bar
set up for the guests. A sound system was set up on the viewing stand
as well. Since the parade route is about 5 miles long, it takes about
5 hours before the parade reaches the viewing stand and we were dancing
and having a party on the stand. The music blared everything from "That
Old Time Rock and Roll" to hiphop. Even the inevitable "YMCA". All the
people who come to watch the parade create their own parade and we watched
them and they watched us. Friends of the VIPs would stop to chat, have
a drink, and a good time was had by all.
The first sign of the parade is a cadre of police officers on motorcycles
who ride back and forth up and down the street, sirens blazing away,
signaling that it's time for everyone to get out of the way. It's wonderfully
effective crowd control and the policemen are very much a part of the
parade. Following the policemen are a few open convertibles with the
past queen and court and then the Shriners motorcycles. The Shriners
don't just ride up and down like the cops - they do figure 8s! I loved
the motorcycles!
The Queen's float is next and, when she arrives at City Hall, the
float stops for a champagne toast to the queen. A gang plank is put
across from the float to the viewing stand so that the family of the
queen can walk across for the toast. Not only did all of the sisters
have to walk the plank, but our 82 year old mother who bullied her way
out of the hospital for the occasion, strutted out there for her turn
too!
I should tell you that my sister's costume was really an awesome sight.
A really gorgeous white ballgown with a back piece about 6 feet in diameter
(I'm not sure what you call this) of white feathers that was strapped
on to her waist and rested on her shoulders. I'm not describing this
very well but the effect as the float came toward us down Main Street
was of a beautiful white butterfly. (In fact, as we were toasting her
at City Hall, a gust of wind nearly blew the butterfly off the float!)
That thing weighed about 50 pounds and she not only carried it for some
6 hours but she did it with the wind blowing.
After the queen came the float with the Court, also done up in outrageous
costumes of all different colors.
Then, interspersed with marching bands from all the high schools and
junior high schools, came about 15 or so decorated double decker floats
with the costumed krewe throwing stuff to the crowd. The main objects
that are thrown to the crowd are strings of beads and there are no lengths
to which people will not go to acquire these things. Beads are not the
only things that get tossed to the crowd, however. They throw lingerie,
they throw stuffed animals to little children, they throw harmonicas,
super balls, footballs, plastic glasses specially decorated with their
pictures. They throw dubloons (sp?), which symbolize the Pieces of 8
of pirate days and almost any other trinket you can think of. But, mostly,
they throw tons and tons of beads. When they spot a friend in the crowd,
they throw armfuls at a time or they throw unopened cellophane packs
of beads, with maybe 12 strings in the pack. It should be required that
anybody with a friend on a float wear a hard hat! And everybody in town
has friends on the floats!
(There must be at least 10 krewes in Houma. I figured that at least
5000 people directly take part in this mayhem. Since I didn't get there
until Thursday before Mardi Gras, I only got to see 4 of these parades.
But at every one of them, my family carried home sacks, like laundry
bag sacks, of throws which they will sort out and use for next year's
parade.)
The parade wends it's way through town, ending up at Aphrodite's den
- a very large building which belongs to Aphrodite and is where they
work on the floats - for the final party of the day - the Bash. An excellent,
live band was playing as we walked through the door. These folks don't
need encouragement to dance. The entire krewe, still in their costumes,
was on the dance floor when we walked in. The Court changes into casual
clothes. This is not the Ball. The formal ball was held about 3 weeks
earlier. The Bash is a strictly casual affair. A huge buffet was set
up, everything from gumbo to chocolate cake. We danced until the wee
hours of the morning. After the Bash, some of Eileen's closest friends
came over to the house - loathe for the evening to end. We finally hit
the sack at about 5 am and got up the next day for more of the same.
Next year we'll do Carnival in South America. Not Rio, but every Catholic
country has a carnival. Yahoo!
Jeanne